HELD
An 8 week online group journey for women to create a new relationship to men.
HELD is an 8-week group experiential journey designed to alter the way you relate to yourself, and the men in your life.
Over the course of 8 weekly three-hour calls, Bradley will bring his expert holding, and experience, to guide and support you in breaking your personal cycles of codependent relating.
The intention of this healing space is for you to learn to hold and love yourself in the face of the difficult emotions and experiences that come up inside your relationships.
As the journey progresses you will learn to stop abandoning yourself and start to choose your own needs above the expectations and projections of others.
From this embodiment, you will experience a deep honouring of yourself, your boundaries, and your worth, and in doing so come into right-relationship, forgiveness, and vulnerability with the men in your life.
The powerful shifts you will experience as part of HELD will align you back to your own sovereign path, and create an opening for more healthy patterns of relating, rooted in respect, cooperation, and worthiness.
This will be a life-changing journey of profound inner alchemy.
If you are reading this, then it is likely that you are experiencing fractures in your relationships with the men in your life.
Maybe you have been a victim of abuse, betrayal, or rejection at some point.
Or perhaps you have experienced the men you hold dearest, pulling away their hearts, their holding, and their protection.
Maybe the hurt this has caused you is still really raw, and painful.
Almost too much to bear.
Or perhaps you have become numb and resigned to a life where men can’t be what you need to feel loved, safe, and supported.
I know that you are holding too much. And that this heavy weight is forcing you to show up as someone you aren’t.
Critical, judgemental, even unloving, and cruel, at times.
I know that this only seems to make things worse.
You feel frustrated at men’s inability to meet you in the heart and to really understand all that you have given and sacrificed for them.
And then, even when they do attempt to show you signs of care and attention, it doesn’t feel like it’s enough.
Almost like it’s too little, too late.
I understand that you don’t feel able to let go of the past.
You feel unable to forgive all that has happened and to trust that things could be different.
That men could show up differently and consistently.
The reason I know you are going through this is because it is the current story of men and women.
It is a collective tale. And one that we are in the process of rewriting.
It’s a journey I have been through personally with my partner.
An initiation in which I have begun to find a new way of relating to her.
A new way that I want to share with you.
This new way is the foundation on which HELD has been built.
It is a journey that starts within.
What You Can Expect from HELD
You will emerge more connected to yourself, your needs, your wants, and your desires.
You will experience greater love, connection, and intimacy, in your relationships with men.
You will experience greater freedom in your expression, and the way you show up around men, and in life.
You will let go of past hurts, disempowering stories, and learn to process your emotions.
You will start to feel more safe, secure, and held by life.
You will re-awaken to your innate sense of self-worth, self-belief, and self-confidence.
Aliveness, passion, and connection to your innocent sexual nature will return.
You will experience yourself as seen, heard, and celebrated.
You will find yourself opening your heart to life and to others.
You will learn to experience forgiveness as an embodied state.
You will create a new opening for men, and all people, to show up newly in your life.
You will align to your own sovereign path, activated in your gifts, and self-sourced in your connection to love.
Testimonial
I enrolled on Bradley’s HELD container at a really low point.
Living through 20 years of mistrust and hurt, overstepping and abuse had culminated into one last big betrayal. And I couldn’t take it anymore. That’s when I decided I was no longer going to put up with repeating the same old patterns that were making me low, unworthy, wrong, feeling abandoned, unsupported, unloved, and people pleasing instead of listening to MY SELF.
Regardless of whether this journey ended up being with or without my husband, I needed change. If I didn’t, I would only repeat the same old patterns again and again.
It resonated to take this journey with Bradley. The energy behind his posts and reading his words made me think ‘yeah, he gets it, he understands how I feel, and I think he can help’. And more importantly, he’s a man willing to face his past, and change. To do this kind of work with someone who can represent who you are fearful and angry and mistrustful of, is alchemic in itself. He holds the space to allow you to open up to who you truly are, and to see man in a different light to how we perceive them to be.
Thanks to his wisdom, spiritual transmission and intuition, It took me on a journey far deeper than I ever could have expected at the start.
This shift allowed the chance for relationships to heal, and to transform all the unhealthy relationships around me, both male and female. It’s life changing and I cannot recommend this container enough to anyone it resonates with.
Thank you Bradley, with all my heart.
Lisa
Where HELD takes place
HELD will take place via Zoom over the course of 8 weeks starting on, Tuesday 10th September 2024.
The program consists of 8 weekly 3 hour calls at 7pm UK each Tuesday thereafter.
The dates for these calls are as follows:
September - 10th, 17th, 24th
October - 1st, 8st, 15th, 22nd, 29th
Further support will be given inside the private HELD Facebook Group for the duration of the journey.
A bonus 30 minute group Q&A session is included and will be announced at a later date.
Once you feel safe and held in yourself your relationship to men will change.
HELD is a rare opportunity to be supported through a deeply transformative process by a journeyed, and safe man.
The programme is designed to alter the relationship you have with yourself, and the men in your life.
Through this powerful and life-altering work you will create an opening for men to show up newly inside your experience.